Hello ladies and gents today we are going to talk about the
ULTIMATE GUIDE TO BEING POPULAR
1. BE SOCIAL.
Yes you have to talk to people. In many ways i have tried this and ended up being FAKE. Do not do this if you want friends be honest but not too honest dont tell them about your massive collection of bugs or anything that might be a mental stop because you freak them out. Slowly open up to them because that my friends is the Key you need to find soemthing that is popular and that you like football comes to mind for guys or girls im not biased And talk about that it will open a dialog then try to think of tangents but dont go from subject to subject.
2. BE NICE AND KIND
If you be nice odds are like minded people will want to talk to you dont try to be cool and sad because it doesnt work what i would do if you see a opportunity to be nice just doit even if it just gets a thank you its a start. In many ways this is how people get friends apart from number 1 up there.
3.STAND UP FOR YOURSELF
If you want to make genuine friends, then you can't let people walk all over you. If you stick to your guns and know when to defend yourself, you'll actually gain respect and will be more likely to make more friends and to gain popularity. If you're nice to people just because you want them to like you, you won't get very far and you won't be respected.
4.BE OPEN TO NEW PEOPLE
If you're friendly and are always going up to new people and making small talk with them, you'll be on your way to easily making friends. You should be excited to get to know new people, no matter what crowd they're in or what grade they're in. Of course, you should take it slow and not bombard new people, or people who look busy, but if you find an opportunity to talk to someone new, like if you're at your locker by yourself with another person at his locker standing next to you, then you should take it.
5.SMILE AT PEOPLE
You may think that the last thing you want to do in high school is to every smile at anyone, because smiling is just so uncool, but you should change your attitude if you want to be more social and get on your way to being more popular. Smiling will make you more approachable, will make more people notice you, and will make more people likely to feel welcome in your presence. It's a big part of being friendly. You don't have to smile at absolutely everyone in your school, but if you walk by someone in the halls, take a chance and give that person a little smile, even if you don't know him or her.
I hope you liked this post if it is liked we will do more of them as always have a chilled day from the Viking.
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